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Jul
26
7:00 PM19:00

SABBATH FOR THE PRINCE OF DARKNESS - OZZY

This Saturday | 7 PM – Close | Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge

Join us in honoring the Prince of Darkness himself Ozzy Osbourne.

Eliott Edge will be bartending, including a special mocktail exclusively in honor of the Master of Reality himself.

We’ll be blasting his melodic dark curses into the streets from 7 to close.

Praise to the king of Heavy Metal.

If you're old man ever told you to "Psst. Listen to this," come on by and be with your local witches.

No cover. 🖤

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Jul
22
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Jul
21
6:00 PM18:00

SOBER SIP N DRAW

Sober Sip & Draw — This Monday at Hekate
6–10 PM | Hekate Cafe & Elixir Lounge

Come work on that project you've been putting off.
Whether it's a sketch, a script, a zine, or just a fresh page—this is your night to sit down, sip something good, and finally dive in.

We’re keeping it chill and sober with:
- Coffee, tea, espresso, frozen drinks
- Non-alcoholic beer & wine
- Kava and curated zero-proof cocktails

Bring your notebook, your tablet, your to-do list, or your masterpiece-in-progress. Hosted by @LivingLavaLamp.

No pressure, no alcohol, just a soft-focus space to create and connect.

Drop in, stay the night.

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Jun
25
7:00 PM19:00

SOBER PRIDE!

SOBER PRIDE PARTY @ HEKATE

Wednesday, June 26 | 7–9PM

Pride without the hangover.

Join us at Hekate for a one-night-only sober celebration of queer joy, community, and radiant self-expression. Hosted by @woo_woo_crew, who’s bringing a camera for photos!

Zero-proof cocktails, espresso, tea, kava, and NA wine & beer

Good music, better vibes, all love

Sober, sober-curious, or just down to party without the booze—come as you are

Let’s toast to pride, clarity, and connection.

One night. All you. Absolutely no alcohol.

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Jun
24
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Jun
23
6:00 PM18:00

SOBER SIP N DRAW

Sober Sip & Draw — This Monday at Hekate
6–10 PM | Hekate Cafe & Elixir Lounge

Come work on that project you've been putting off.
Whether it's a sketch, a script, a zine, or just a fresh page—this is your night to sit down, sip something good, and finally dive in.

We’re keeping it chill and sober with:
- Coffee, tea, espresso, frozen drinks
- Non-alcoholic beer & wine
- Kava and curated zero-proof cocktails

Bring your notebook, your tablet, your to-do list, or your masterpiece-in-progress. Hosted by @LivingLavaLamp.

No pressure, no alcohol, just a soft-focus space to create and connect.

Drop in, stay the night.

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Jun
18
6:00 PM18:00

WITCHY WEDNESDAYS

Calling all witches, wizards, seers, psychonauts, spell-slingers, experiencers, odd philosophers, and other seekers of the strange! Hekate Cafe and Elixir Lounge is proud to announce Witchy Wednesdays — your monthly coven without a coven. Join us for a magical mingle-meets-mixer at Hekate, the #1 Sober Bar in the United States (TimeOut), and one of the witchiest scenes on all the East Coast! Meet other kindred spirits to gather, share, and spark synchronicities together. Come chat 5D downloads, paranormal research, strange dreams, astral travels, high strangeness, launching sigils, unusual signs, and telling symbols. Whether you're deep in practice or just magically curious, there's a seat for you in the circle.

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Jun
10
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Jun
9
6:00 PM18:00

Sober Sip & Draw — This Monday at Hekate 6–10 PM

Sober Sip & Draw — This Monday at Hekate
6–10 PM | Hekate Cafe & Elixir Lounge

Come work on that project you've been putting off.
Whether it's a sketch, a script, a zine, or just a fresh page—this is your night to sit down, sip something good, and finally dive in.

We’re keeping it chill and sober with:
- Coffee, tea, espresso, frozen drinks
- Non-alcoholic beer & wine
- Kava and curated zero-proof cocktails

Bring your notebook, your tablet, your to-do list, or your masterpiece-in-progress. Hosted by @LivingLavaLamp.

No pressure, no alcohol, just a soft-focus space to create and connect.

Drop in, stay the night.

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Jun
6
to Jun 7

CULT 24 GEMINI PRESENTS STARBORN GEMINI SEASON

Happy Belated Goth Day! Inviting all goth music lovers! HEKATE AND CULT 24 present “STARBORN” Come out on Friday, June 6th from 5pm to 11pm, a night of celebration for our illustrious GEMINIS!” The energy is adventurous, complex, duel natured, adaptable, curious and witty.

We will have DJs, live music, vendors and performances that will l encourage all the social butterflies to be spontaneous and the life of the party!

Enjoy astrology and tarot readings. Leave with a tattoo, fine art and photos of your glorious selves. Stay for the amazing herbal teas and elixirs and enjoy a bar that serves non- alcoholic beverages.

We invite you to dress in your most wicked looks. Music will be goth, ambient and we will be playing some classics by Gemini musicians.

STARBORN CAST

ASTROLOGY AND ART BY SNAKE EYES
@snake.eyes.art

MUSICAL PERFORMANCE BY LESPHINXX
@lesphinxx

STORYTELLING BY VERONICA STAXJ
@veronicastaxj

TATTOO BY DRAGONFLY
@vandermarkproductions

TAROT BY AGNI JNANA @jana_astanov

PHOTOGRAPHY AND PERFORMANCE BY TRES WISHES
@tres.wishes

DJ SET BY DJNOFUTURE @xcyyndix
DJ SET BY KMARI MARSI @wizardbitchh

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Jun
3
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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May
27
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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May
20
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT AT HEKATE

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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May
11
12:00 PM12:00

Mother's Day

Swing by this Mother’s Day and join our fabulous bartender, Chef Julia, who’s crafted a one-day-only, off-menu mocktail just for the occasion. Stay for our fantastic atmosphere, and get acquainted with our larger menu. Come toast to Mom (or yourself) with something special. We see bubbles in your future.

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May
6
6:00 PM18:00

Tuesday Game Night at Hekate

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.
No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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May
5
6:00 PM18:00

Sober(Curious) Cinco de Mayo Party

We're back with another hangover-free party, and this time we’re celebrating our Mexican friends & neighbors on Cinco de Mayo! 🇲🇽

​Expect cocktail specials with non-alc tequila by Tomonotomo, 🍃 infused drinks by Cloudwalker Farm, and NA palomas and mojitos by JAS, music, conversation starter cards, and MAYBE the bedazzle station will make a comeback too! ✨

​There’s no fixed programming at this event. Come through any time and be ready to mingle with new people!

​This event is supported by Cloudwalker Farm!

RSVP at THIRD PLACE BAR!

FAQ

​​Q: Do I need to be there at the exact start time?
No, you can stop by at the party any time!

​​​Q: Can I come alone?
Yes, this is a social mixer, you’re welcome to come alone and meet new people!

​​​Q: Can I bring friends?
Yes, but please send them the link to RSVP so we can manage the venue capacity (!!), send them important updates, and ensure a great experience for all!

​​​Q: Is this a sober venue?
Yes, Hekate is a 100% sober bar.

Q: Will there be food?
Hekate does not serve food, and it will likely be too tight and busy to bring in takeout! There are plenty of bars and restaurants in the neighborhood that have great options for a quick snack or dinner.

​​​Q: Is there an age restriction?
Yes, all our events are 21+

​​​Q: Is there a cover charge?
No, there is no cover charge, but we encourage you to purchase drinks to support us and the venue & tip the lovely bar staff so we can continue hosting these kinds of events!

Location

Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge

167 Avenue B, New York, NY 10009, USA

Stop by at the bar any time!

RSVP at THIRD PLACE BAR!

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May
1
7:00 PM19:00

Beltane at Hekate

Celebrate the height of spring with Hekate and Huge Witch! 🌸✨

Join us for a magical Beltane gathering filled with vibrant energy, creativity, and community. We’ll have a flower crown bar to craft your own floral masterpiece, mini maypoles to dance and weave your intentions, fairy wish spells to send your dreams into the universe, a menu of delicious seasonal mocktails to sip and savor — and a very special raffle you won’t want to miss!

Let’s welcome the season of growth, magic, and new beginnings together. See you there!

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Apr
23
6:00 PM18:00

WITCHY WEDNESDAYS

It’s finally here… Calling all witches, wizards, seers, psychonauts, spell-slingers, experiencers, odd philosophers, and other seekers of the strange! Hekate Cafe and Elixir Lounge is proud to announce Witchy Wednesdays — your monthly coven without a coven. Join us for a magical mingle-meets-mixer at Hekate, the #1 Sober Bar in the United States (TimeOut), and one of the witchiest scenes on all the East Coast! Meet other kindred spirits to gather, share, and spark synchronicities together. Come chat 5D downloads, paranormal research, strange dreams, astral travels, high strangeness, launching sigils, unusual signs, and telling symbols. Whether you're deep in practice or just magically curious, there's a seat for you in the circle.

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Apr
20
3:00 PM15:00

EASTER BASH!

Celebrate the highest holiday and the most eggcellent one with us at Hekate! We're blending 4/20 vibes with Easter magic for a surreal springtime sesh you won’t forget. Expect herbal elixirs, candy baskets, cozy clouds, and plenty of mischief.

Cloudwalker Farms will be in the house, bringing good energy and high vibes.

Come through—whether you're chasing bunnies or just chilling like one.

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Mar
9
5:30 PM17:30

Mental Health & Sobriety

Come join us for a mixer for the sober curious focused on mental health and sober living at Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge. Connect with like-minded individuals in a cozy and welcoming atmosphere. Learn about strategies for maintaining a healthy mind and body. Discover the benefits of sobriety and how it can positively impact your life. First 15 ticketed attendees receive a free drink!

Please purchase your ticket HERE.

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Feb
15
7:00 PM19:00

Love AF Valentine's Party

​After several sold out parties, we're back at Hekate to celebrate LOVE AF this February 15! This is a booze-free Valentine's party for the singles, the taken, the straights, the queers, the young, the old, and everyone in between.

Everyone welcome! We proudly recognize all 69 genders and sexual orientations and we're inviting you all to bring your authentic self & celebrate human connection with us 💋

​We'll have stickers to indicate whether you're single and ready to mingle or just there to party with us.

Free RSVP here.

Alcohol-free drinks available for purchase at the bar.

DRESS CODE:​

RED & PINK! Show us your best outfits and makeup! 🍒❤️💋💝🌸🌹 Not mandatory, but highly encouraged...

WHAT TO EXPECT:

​A full non-alc bar 🥂, a bedazzle station ✨, conversation starter cards 💬, a secret note message board 💌, way too much candy 🍬, and as usual, a killer playlist 🎵pect

Q&A:

​A full non-alc bar 🥂, a bedazzle station ✨, conversation starter cards 💬, a secret note message board 💌, way too much candy 🍬, and as usual, a killer playlist 🎵

EVENT FAQ:

Q: Is this a singles event?
Nope, everyone is welcome. BUT we will have stickers to indicate if you're single and ready to mingle!

Q: Do I need to be there at the exact start time?
No, you can stop by at the event any time!

Q: Can I come alone?
Yes, this is a social mixer, you’re welcome to come alone and meet new people!

Q: Is this a sober venue?
Yes, Hekate is a 100% sober bar.

Q: Is there an age restriction?
Yes, all our events are 21+

Q: Wait did you mean February 14, like actual Valentine's Day?
Nope, the party is on February 15, so you can take your babe out for a date on VDay proper!

Please note: By signing up for this event you agree to receive email communication from us. You can opt out any time.

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Feb
13
7:00 PM19:00

Galentine's Day!

Galentine’s Day is a sweet celebration of the love you share with your favorite friends. Call up the ghoulies and join us at New York City’s favorite dry bar for an evening of conjure and community with Aura and  The Moon and The Muse. Enjoy a psychic reading while sipping on a love potion made just for you. Or maybe create your own ritual kit while enjoying the vibe that is Hekate Bar, located in the Mystic District of the East Village. 

There is no cover charge, all are welcome,  with a limited amount of tickets available to purchase. Tickets include a love potion, custom ritual kit, and a guaranteed appointment for a psychic reading that evening. 

Click HERE for tickets. 

@lipstickmystic

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Feb
12
7:00 PM19:00

Galentine's Meet-Up

Hey Galentines! Whether you’re sober, sober curious, or just looking for a night out without booze you’re invited! Nadine (@thesoberbutterfly) and I (@boozefree.nyc) are hosting a sober Galentines Meet-Up filled with goodies, games, and gals! The dress code is pink and red, which is optional but strongly encouraged 🩷♥️. This meet-up will be hosted at Hekate. We hope to see you there!

RSVP here!

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Jan
29
6:00 PM18:00

Lunar New Year - The Year of the Snake

Join us to celebrate the Lunar New Year, which ushers in The Year of the Snake, a creature characterized as alert, calm, and smart. Gong Hei fat choi!

The folks from Tsingtao will be joining us from 6 till 8, giving away free samples of their crisp NA pilsner and handing out free fortune cookies. Julia will be offering a delicious dumpling making lesson.

From 8 till 10, Tillie the Clown will be emceeing Drag Queen Bingo, with wonderful prizes! Levi from Do'Mo will be with us handing out samples of power-packed deliciousness. We will have other yummy stuff, good luck talismans and SNAKES! One of our tarot readers will be in house and who knows what other witchery we'll be up to? Whatever happens, it will be magical!

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