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Jan
29
7:00 PM19:00

CaliSober with Psychedelic Assembly: NeuroDiversity Night!

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Join us for the next installment of California Sober, a zero-proof psychedelic social series from the Psychedelic Assembly and Hekate

California Sober: NeuroDiversity Nght

Join us for the next installment of California Sober, a monthly zero-proof psychedelic social series from the Psychedelic Assembly and Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge.

Each month, California Sober explores a different theme or subculture within the psychedelic world, bringing together people drawn by shared interests, lived experience, or curiosity… all in a relaxed, alcohol-free social setting.

Think of it as a more intimate, conversational cousin of our Find the Others events, hosted in a cozy, witchy space with an incredible selection of non-alcoholic elixirs available for purchase!

This Month’s Theme: NeuroDiversity Night

This month’s gathering is intentionally centered on neurodivergent members of the psychedelic community.

Many people drawn to psychedelic culture feel that their brains don’t fit neatly into dominant norms, and identify as Autistic, ADHD, OCD, or otherwise neurodivergent. NeuroDiversity Night is a chance for neurodivergent psychedelic folks to connect, share perspectives, and find one another in a setting that values alternative ways of thinking.

This event is designed primarily as a meet-up for people who identify as neurodivergent, including those who are self-identified or exploring. Allies are welcome to attend with the understanding that this evening centers on sharing and learning from the neurodivergent experience.

Low-pressure conversation prompts will be available, and participation in any activity is always optional. As with all of our events, come as you are!

About Hekate:

Hekate is a convivial community space fueled by feminine energy. Join us for the alcohol-free social ambience of Manhattan’s ONLY 100% boozeless bar, designed for those who seek the alchemy of herbal elixirs. Our café is an unusual retail experience and gathering place for anyone who might appreciate a sober alternative to bars with an assortment of herb-based beverages, full of nutraceuticals and adaptogens. In addition to thirst-quenching drinks, we carry an assortment of antiques and oddities, crafts and curiosities. Check our events calendar for workshops, acoustic music, art openings, book signings, poetry readings and more.

About The Psychedelic Assembly:

The Psychedelic Assembly is a member-supported community organization cultivating connection, education, and culture at the edge of expanded consciousness. Through events and creative programming, we aim to support the growth of authentic culture rooted in curiosity, care, human connection, and collective transformation.

Learn More:

https://www.thepsychedelicassembly.com/

Disclaimer: The Psychedelic Assembly is an educational, community-focused organization. We do not sell, supply, or facilitate access to any illegal substances. Our events are educational, community-oriented spaces, and we ask all attendees to participate respectfully.

Solicitation, use, or distribution of illegal substances — as well as disruptive or disrespectful behavior — will not be tolerated. These are private events, and we reserve the right to ask anyone to leave if their behavior compromises the safety or integrity of the space.

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Jan
31
5:00 PM17:00

Hekate’s Monthly Soberversary

Join us for Hekate’s Monthly Soberversary, a recurring evening dedicated to honoring milestones big and small: one day, one month, one year, or simply the choice to stay present tonight.

Come as you are. Celebrate yourself or someone you love. Raise a glass of something intentional. Stay for one drink or settle in for the evening.

Held the last Saturday of every month

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Feb
1
3:00 PM15:00

TAROT PARTY

A group of Hekate House Tarot readers will be set up all evening offering readings—drop in, pull a card, ask the universe what it’s been side-eyeing you about.

Warm up between readings with Hekate’s winter comforts: rum-kissed cider, hot toddies, and hot spiced mulled wine. We’ll also be serving house-made chocolate for mochas and hot chocolate, plus our signature house-blended herbal teas.

Cozy, candlelit, enchanted, and vibey—perfect winter energy.

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Jan
22
7:00 PM19:00

Potion Workshop at Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge

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Make your own botanical shrub with a former sommelier at Hekate. Let your senses and sensibilities guide you to create something tasty.

Make your own non-alcoholic botanical shrub with a former sommelier on select weeknights nights at Hekate.  The workshop is hands-on with a large variety of smells and tastes to explore. Everything you'll need to make a delicious botanical shrub iincluded along with a flavor expert for helpful hints if you want. Be a meticulous mad scientist or a jazzy witch. Space is limited!

  • Over 20 (organic where possible) botanicals to smell, taste, and create with

  • Organic kelp vinegar for you to infuse(seaweed is perfect for this, and you'll learn why)

  • 750 mL apothecary bottle for your botanical shrub. Depending on how sweet you like, how much vinegar the botanicals absorb, and how much you dilute the vinegar you may get more or less than 750 mL (but it'll be close)

  • Pre-Infused vinegar to smell, taste, and blend for a preview of your personal potion

  • Organic simple syrup to sweeten your infusions

  • White or Kraft-paper-style labels with basic art supplies to label your final concoction

  • Guidance and ideas from a sommelier that you’re welcome to throw away, because this class is about hands-on IRL fun and exploration of aromas and flavors, not perfection or pretentiousness.

Important Safety Notes:

This class is not recommended for pregnant people. We can't speak to the safety of the botanicals or unpasteurized vinegar for people pregnant/nursing.

This class is sensory-focused and not an herbal medicine class.

All of the botanicals offered will all be on the “Generally Recognized as Safe” list from the FDA and we can help with some general food safety recommendations, but since we’re not medical professionals or food-safety scientists we can’t guarantee what you create is 100% without effects, especially regarding drug interactions or medical conditions. Ask a doctor if you're concerned about anything, and we'd be happy to provide the ingredients which will be available.

Less Important Notes:

Extra bottles available for a reasonable price

The vinegar flavor of your shrub can be covered up quite a bit and the vinegar is high quality. If you hate vinegar you may not enjoy this class, but if you’re ok with hot sauce, ketchup, mustard, or kombucha you’ll likely be ok

You can bring other sweeteners if you’d like (honey or maple syrup etc) but we're only providing cane-sugar-based simple syrup)

We recommend coming once to infuse and a second time to balance your infusion (sweeten/dilute) and share. You can take home your infusions too and do it yourself. The price for the class includes the 2nd visit to balance the infusion.

GET YOUR TICKETS TODAY

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Jan
12
7:00 PM19:00

Potion Workshop at Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge

GET YOUR TICKETS TODAY
Make your own botanical shrub with a former sommelier at Hekate. Let your senses and sensibilities guide you to create something tasty.

Make your own non-alcoholic botanical shrub with a former sommelier on select weeknights nights at Hekate.  The workshop is hands-on with a large variety of smells and tastes to explore. Everything you'll need to make a delicious botanical shrub iincluded along with a flavor expert for helpful hints if you want. Be a meticulous mad scientist or a jazzy witch. Space is limited!

  • Over 20 (organic where possible) botanicals to smell, taste, and create with

  • Organic kelp vinegar for you to infuse(seaweed is perfect for this, and you'll learn why)

  • 750 mL apothecary bottle for your botanical shrub. Depending on how sweet you like, how much vinegar the botanicals absorb, and how much you dilute the vinegar you may get more or less than 750 mL (but it'll be close)

  • Pre-Infused vinegar to smell, taste, and blend for a preview of your personal potion

  • Organic simple syrup to sweeten your infusions

  • White or Kraft-paper-style labels with basic art supplies to label your final concoction

  • Guidance and ideas from a sommelier that you’re welcome to throw away, because this class is about hands-on IRL fun and exploration of aromas and flavors, not perfection or pretentiousness.

Important Safety Notes:

This class is not recommended for pregnant people. We can't speak to the safety of the botanicals or unpasteurized vinegar for people pregnant/nursing.

This class is sensory-focused and not an herbal medicine class.

All of the botanicals offered will all be on the “Generally Recognized as Safe” list from the FDA and we can help with some general food safety recommendations, but since we’re not medical professionals or food-safety scientists we can’t guarantee what you create is 100% without effects, especially regarding drug interactions or medical conditions. Ask a doctor if you're concerned about anything, and we'd be happy to provide the ingredients which will be available.

Less Important Notes:

Extra bottles available for a reasonable price

The vinegar flavor of your shrub can be covered up quite a bit and the vinegar is high quality. If you hate vinegar you may not enjoy this class, but if you’re ok with hot sauce, ketchup, mustard, or kombucha you’ll likely be ok

You can bring other sweeteners if you’d like (honey or maple syrup etc) but we're only providing cane-sugar-based simple syrup)

We recommend coming once to infuse and a second time to balance your infusion (sweeten/dilute) and share. You can take home your infusions too and do it yourself. The price for the class includes the 2nd visit to balance the infusion.

GET YOUR TICKETS TODAY

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Jan
10
10:30 AM10:30

Hekate New Menu Unveiling

Saturday the 10th | Beginning at 5PM

Join us as Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge unveils our brand-new menu—a fresh chapter of ritual, flavor, and atmosphere.

Expect thoughtfully crafted new elixirs, refined classics, and a first taste of what we’ve been brewing behind the scenes. The evening is designed for lingering: candlelight, conversation, and discovery.

Come through, sip something new, and experience the evolution of Hekate.

Tarot readers will be on-hand all night too!

FREE RSVP

Unveiling begins at 5PM
📍 Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge

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Jan
3
7:00 PM19:00

Dry January Kickoff Party @ Hekate

✨ THIS EVENT IS SUPPORTED BY HIYO

​🎉 Kick off the year with a bang at our Dry January party! Don't miss out on this opportunity to dive right into your New Year's resolutions, meet likeminded people, and explore the world of non-alcoholic drinks.

​​🍹 We'll have delicious drinks specials including HIYO adaptogenic seltzers, non-alcoholic craft cocktails, wine, and beer, ice breakers to help you get the conversation started, a bedazzle station to get you sparkling, and a vibey playlist.

​​✨ The dress code for this party is SPARKLES - bring your best glitter, metallic, shiny, shimmery looks, makeup, body glitter…

​​🎁 Free admission with RSVP, buy your drinks at the bar.

​​Event FAQ

​​Q: Do I need to be there at 7pm?
No, you can stop by at the party any time!

​​Q: Is the dress code mandatory?
No, but it's highly encouraged!

​​Q: Can I come alone?
Yes, you’re welcome to come alone and meet new people!

​​Q: Can I bring friends?
Yes, but everyone needs to RSVP so that we can managed the capacity and send out important communication if needed!

​​Q: Is this a sober venue?
Yes, Hekate is a 100% sober bar.

​​Q: Are all drinks non-alcoholic?
Yes, all drinks served are non-alcoholic (less than 0.5% ABV) but may resemble alcohol in taste.

​​Q: Is there an age restriction?
Our events are 21+.

​​Please note: By signing up for this event you agree to receive email communication from the event organizers. You can opt out any time.

FREE RSVP HERE

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Dec
31
6:00 PM18:00

SOBER NYE @ HEKATE

Let go and start the new year fresh. On December 31st Hekate will host a ceremonial burning of burdens. Write your troubles on a slip of paper and at midnight, watch them turn to ash as we bring light to the night. Join us and start the new year bright and blessed by The Goddess.

All night Tarot Readings for the New Year
Wine tasting
Cheese and hors d'oeuvres

Event is FREE! RSVP HERE!

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Dec
23
7:00 PM19:00

Potion Workshop with (Parentheses) Vol 3

Sign up to make your own non-alcoholic botanical shrub with a former sommelier on select weeknights nights at Hekate.  The workshop is hands-on with a large variety of smells and tastes to explore. Everything you'll need to make a delicious botanical shrub is included along with a flavor expert for helpful hints if you want. Be a meticulous mad scientist or a jazzy witch. Space is limited! Walk-ins welcome, but please sign up to make sure your space is reserved. We recommend coming twice to give your herbs time to infuse (you’ll only be charged once.)

You DO NOT need to have taken our first workshop to enjoy these ones!

SPACE IS LIMITED. SIGN UP TODAY

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Dec
17
7:00 PM19:00

California Sober with Psychedelic Assembly

Join us for the launch of California Sober, a new monthly zero-proof psychedelic social series from the Psychedelic Assembly and Hekate!

Join us for the launch of California Sober, a new monthly zero-proof psychedelic social series from the Psychedelic Assembly and Hekate Café & Elixir Lounge!

Each month, California Sober will explore a different tailored theme or subculture within the psychedelic world — from neurodiversity nights to psychedelic singles mixers, to gatherings for Ayahuasca aficionados and more.

Every installment will bring together a unique mix of people, ideas, and perspectives drawn together by their shared interest in the month’s theme, all in a mellow social setting. Think of it as a mini-version of our beloved Find the Others events, hosted in a cozy, witchy environment with an incredible array of non-alcoholic refreshments to purchase.

This first gathering is a chance to experience the vibe, meet new people, and help us shape the direction of future California Sober events by sharing what kinds of themes or topics you’d love to see us curate as meetups!

Whether you're sober-curious, psychedelic-curious, or simply looking for a night out that doesn’t require alcohol, California Sober offers a new kind of community experience, one that celebrates connection, clarity, and the many flavors of psychedelic subculture in NYC.

GET TICKETS TODAY

About Hekate:

Hekate is a convivial community space fueled by feminine energy. Join us for the alcohol-free social ambience of Manhattan’s OG boozeless bar, designed for those who seek the alchemy of herbal elixirs. Our café is an unusual retail experience and gathering place for anyone who might appreciate a sober alternative to bars with an assortment of herb-based beverages, full of nutraceuticals and adaptogens. In addition to thirst-quenching drinks, we carry an assortment of antiques and oddities, crafts and curiosities. Check our events calendar for workshops, acoustic music, art openings, book signings, poetry readings and more.

About The Psychedelic Assembly:

The Psychedelic Assembly is a member-supported community organization cultivating connection, education, and culture at the edge of expanded consciousness. Through events and creative programming, we aim to support the growth of authentic culture rooted in curiosity, care, human connection, and collective transformation.

Learn More:

https://www.thepsychedelicassembly.com/

Disclaimer: The Psychedelic Assembly is an educational, community-focused organization. We do not sell, supply, or facilitate access to any illegal substances. Our events are educational, community-oriented spaces, and we ask all attendees to participate respectfully.

Solicitation, use, or distribution of illegal substances — as well as disruptive or disrespectful behavior — will not be tolerated. These are private events, and we reserve the right to ask anyone to leave if their behavior compromises the safety or integrity of the space.

GET TICKETS TODAY

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Dec
16
7:00 PM19:00

Potion Workshop with (Parentheses) 2

Sign up to make your own non-alcoholic botanical shrub with a former sommelier on select weeknights nights at Hekate.  The workshop is hands-on with a large variety of smells and tastes to explore. Everything you'll need to make a delicious botanical shrub is included along with a flavor expert for helpful hints if you want. Be a meticulous mad scientist or a jazzy witch. Space is limited! Walk-ins welcome, but please sign up to make sure your space is reserved. We recommend coming twice to give your herbs time to infuse (you’ll only be charged once.)

You DO NOT need to have taken our first workshop to enjoy these ones!

SPACE IS LIMITED. SIGN UP TODAY

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Dec
8
7:00 PM19:00

Potion Workshop with (Parentheses)

Sign up to make your own non-alcoholic botanical shrub with a former sommelier on select weeknights nights at Hekate.  The workshop is hands-on with a large variety of smells and tastes to explore. Everything you'll need to make a delicious botanical shrub is included along with a flavor expert for helpful hints if you want. Be a meticulous mad scientist or a jazzy witch. Space is limited! Walk-ins welcome, but please sign up to make sure your space is reserved. We recommend coming twice to give your herbs time to infuse (you’ll only be charged once.)

SPACE IS LIMITED. SIGN UP TODAY

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Dec
3
7:00 PM19:00

Book Event - Sarah Potter's Sober Magic

Join us for an evening celebrating Sober Magic, the book and the reality! Author Sarah Potter will read from her book, answer questions, and sign copies should you decide to purchase!

Sarah Potter is a professional witch, intuitive tarot reader, and spiritual guide known for blending ancient wisdom with a modern approach to mysticism. She writes weekly Tarotscopes for Astrology.com and quarterly Tarotscopes for Bust Magazine and is the creator of the Cosmo Tarot deck for Cosmopolitan. Sarah leads transformative Full Moon ceremonies in partnership with the Asbury Hotel and is celebrated for guiding powerful rituals that help others align with their intuition, manifest their desires, and live with intention. Whether leading large-scale moon gatherings, offering one-on-one guidance, or blessing music festivals with ritual, Sarah’s work empowers others to reclaim their magic and create lives filled with clarity, connection, and enchantment. She is based in NYC. @iamsarahpotter


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Nov
1
3:00 PM15:00

'When We Spoke to the Dead' Book Reading & Signing

It began with whispers in a dimly lit room. In the 1840s, the Fox Sisters—and the legions of mediums they inspired—ignited the Spiritualist movement that swept through Victorian parlors and presidential campaigns alike. Contacting the dead wasn't merely a parlor trick: It was a political statement, a declaration of self that still echoes. Séances attracted suffragists and scientists, skeptics and charlatans, giving women a voice in a society that often refused to hear them. But as Spiritualism surged, it also blurred the lines between faith, fraud, feminism, and financial opportunity, drawing figures as varied as Harry Houdini, Victoria Woodhull, and even modern self-help gurus into its ever-expanding orbit.

From wartime séances to the rise of televangelists, from Victorian ghosts to goop-approved wellness rituals, When We Spoke to the Dead unearths the forgotten roots of today's obsession with manifestation, mysticism, and the power of belief. Exploring America's deep-seated hunger for the unseen—whether through politics, personal empowerment, or grief—this book traces how the supernatural, once condemned as heresy, became the ultimate commodity.

Step inside the séance room. The spirits have been waiting.

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Oct
25
7:00 PM19:00

Saints & Sinners Halloween Bash with Third Place Bar

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All boos & no booze! 👻

​Join us for our annual Halloween bash at the witchiest NA bar in NYC to close out the Third Place Bar season & party hangover-free! The dress code is Saints & Sinners - think good and evil, angels & demons, hot priests and not so holy nuns, you get the idea.

​We’ll have a bumping playlist, a ton of Halloween candy, a floating tarot reader, giveaways, and of course, delicious NA drink specials for purchase at the bar. Space is extremely limited, grab your spot asap!

​FAQ

​​Q: Do I need to be there at the exact start time?
No, you can stop by at the party any time!

​​​Q: Can I come alone?
Yes, this is a social mixer, you’re welcome to come alone and meet new people!

​​​Q: Can I bring friends?
Yes, but please purchase a ticket for everyone in the party as there might not be tickets at the door

​​​Q: Is this a sober venue?
Yes, Hekate is a 100% sober bar, but some of the drinks served may resemble alcohol in taste.

Q: What’s included in the ticket price?
Admission to the party, unlimited candy, giveaways. Drinks are available for purchase at the bar, with drink specials all night!

Q: Will there be food?
Hekate does not serve food and there will be no space to bring takeout.

​​​Q: Is there an age restriction?
Yes, all our events are 21+

​​​Q: Can I get a refund for my ticket?
Unfortunately, we can’t grant refunds for tickets. You are welcome to transfer your ticket to a friend.

Get a ticket TODAY!

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Oct
21
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Oct
15
6:00 PM18:00

WITCHY WEDNESDAYS

Calling all witches, wizards, seers, psychonauts, spell-slingers, experiencers, odd philosophers, and other seekers of the strange! Hekate Cafe and Elixir Lounge is proud to announce Witchy Wednesdays — your monthly coven without a coven. Join us for a magical mingle-meets-mixer at Hekate, the #1 Sober Bar in the United States (TimeOut), and one of the witchiest scenes on all the East Coast! Meet other kindred spirits to gather, share, and spark synchronicities together. Come chat 5D downloads, paranormal research, strange dreams, astral travels, high strangeness, launching sigils, unusual signs, and telling symbols. Whether you're deep in practice or just magically curious, there's a seat for you in the circle.

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Oct
14
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Oct
1
6:00 PM18:00

4 YEARS OLD - SOBER OCTOBER LAUNCH!

Come help us kick off Sober October and celebrate our Fourth Anniversary! Yup, four years ago we signed a lease dreaming of a "sober bar," back when no one had ever heard of a sober bar. We had no idea what to do, really, or what to expect, so we blindly fumbled our way along, discovering a whole world of NA spirits, beers, wines, and more. Add to that all the delicious drinks with adaptogens, mushrooms, kava, and, of course, our house made elixirs. From people coming in asking for actual alcohol while reassuring sober people that NOTHING in our space contained booze to being named America's #1 Sober Bar by TimeOut, it's been an interesting journey! And we wouldn't be here without all our trusting customers! Cheers to you!

Our staff of seers and sorcerers will be on hand to guide you into the future. There will be free Hekate swag while it lasts and we'll be kicking off Day #1 or Sober October, our FAVORITE month! All set to a spooky soundtrack that will mesmerize and enchant! Please join us!

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Sep
17
6:00 PM18:00

WITCHY WEDNESDAYS

Calling all witches, wizards, seers, psychonauts, spell-slingers, experiencers, odd philosophers, and other seekers of the strange! Hekate Cafe and Elixir Lounge is proud to announce Witchy Wednesdays — your monthly coven without a coven. Join us for a magical mingle-meets-mixer at Hekate, the #1 Sober Bar in the United States (TimeOut), and one of the witchiest scenes on all the East Coast! Meet other kindred spirits to gather, share, and spark synchronicities together. Come chat 5D downloads, paranormal research, strange dreams, astral travels, high strangeness, launching sigils, unusual signs, and telling symbols. Whether you're deep in practice or just magically curious, there's a seat for you in the circle.

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Sep
16
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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Sep
9
6:00 PM18:00

TUESDAY GAME NIGHT

Every Tuesday, the cauldron bubbles with fun.

Join us for a cozy and delightfully nerdy night of board games, card games, tabletop adventures, and even coloring books for the creatively inclined. Whether you're a D&D diehard, Uno champ, or just down to draw, there's a seat at the table for you.

Bring your own game or grab one from our shelf. Come solo or roll deep.

No pressure, just play.

Mocktails, potions, and good vibes served all night long.

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